• hOrni@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I wouldn’t say that. The only friends I’ve got left are the ones that stayed in the same city as me. I already forgot those who moved away. And the closer someone lives to me, the closer of a friend he is.

  • RagingRobot@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I have about 3 friends that are close and we all meet up weekly. We always go to dinner on Friday night unless we are out of town or something. It’s nice. Idk what I did to make it happen but I love it

  • Blackout@fedia.io
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    2 months ago

    Flying to Panama next month just to visit a friend I haven’t seen in 20 years.

    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      because most people don’t want friends. they just want people to listen to them whine about their life.

      every ‘friend’ i have made as an adult has been nothing more than someone who wants me to be their therapist. so i gave up and I’m much happier w/o people who are constant drags on my well-being.

      i’m so sick of like hanging out with someone a few times, then having them ‘open up’ to me about how they HATE their wife/kids/job and other weird ass shit that I have zero empathy for experience with. and then they think i’m an asshole because I won’t sit there and tell them what a bitch their wife is.