• LuxSpark@lemmy.cafe
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    12 days ago

    Using turn signals requires no emotional bandwidth, so I don’t excuse not using them.

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      11 days ago

      even if it did require emotional bandwidth it’s a bare minimum standard to safely operate a vehicle

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        11 days ago

        Yeah, if what you’re going through is so bad that you can’t operate your vehicle properly, you shouldn’t be behind the wheel at all.

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        That’s the thing that pisses me off. I had two people in my life who juat refused to use turn signals. They low key made fun of me when i used a turn signal with no one around. I don’t care. I drive and use turn signals for over 20 years, it’s no effort, i do it automatically.

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          9 days ago

          my coworkers tease me for wearing my seatbelt. I will never understand where this “safety is for squares, dying horribly in an accident is cool!” braindead ideology came from

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    11 days ago

    It might sound weird but when i’m cussing out another drivers stupidity… I disassociate the human in the vehicle and basically am just cussing out the car.

    • MurrayL@lemmy.world
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      11 days ago

      Cars (and other vehicles) do weird things to us psychologically.

      On a personal level, the car becomes an extension of your own body. Think about what people tend to say after an accident: ‘You hit me’, not ‘you hit my car’ unless they weren’t inside.

      For others, as you say, it has the inverse effect - they make it easy for us to forget there’s a human inside, which can lead to more aggressive behaviour.

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    11 days ago

    There’s going through shit and being extra vulnerable to normal interactions, and then there’s going through shit and taking it out on people around you.

    Those who take their shit out on others don’t deserve to be treated like they’re going through shit. They deserve to be treated like they’re taking shit out on others.

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    11 days ago

    I’m all about compassion and acceptance, until it comes to endangering lives. You’re piloting a 2-ton box of glass and metal at high speeds, follow the rules or someone’s going to get killed.

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    11 days ago

    If people in other cars could hear me, I probably wouldn’t say such mean things about them. But until we all have CB radios, I’m gonna keep telling people to wrap their stupid trucks around trees

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      11 days ago

      I remember a standup back in the day who wanted people’s license plates to be their phone number so you could call them

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      9 days ago

      I’d be scared of proximity voice with other vehicles because it would probably send road rage incidents up a wall