This question is inspired by my father. He is a retired Westerner living in Southeast Asia who is dating two sisters; they are obviously with him for the money, and he outright admits it. Personally, I could never find fulfillment in that kind of arrangement, but I’m curious about how others feel.


I could not. And I know this because I was in one.
It was great at first…get what you want whenever you want, just gotta make sure sugar baby is happy. But what happened with me was I began to crave a more interpersonal connection. I wanted a companion, not just a well-compensated fuckbuddy. And she wasn’t into that idea.