• autriyo@feddit.org
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      Yeah, but a good third space doesn’t expect you to spend money. And obvs still allows you to be there.

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        It can certainly offer you the opportunity to spend money, but it doesn’t have to make money from every person.

        Card shops are sometimes an example. Church. Coffee shops (but who hangs out there?)

        Walkable villages would help a lot. Car brain is hurting our kids and teenagers.

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          Coffee shops (but who hangs out there?)

          Growing up during the Starbucks boom, coffee shops were absolutely a place to hang out after school. There was probably one a short walk or drive from school, and for less than $5 you could grab a sugary drink or a pastry and hang out in a comfortable indoor space with a few friends. Heck, one of your friends probably worked there. It worked great for high schoolers because there wasn’t any alcohol (so minors could be there), you didn’t have to be as quiet as a library, and you could head there regardless of the weather. COVID has probably changed a lot of that as coffee shops focus more on drive throughs and mobile orders, not to mention inflation.

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          I honestly hadn’t thought about card shops as third spaces, but they absolutely can be. Also libraries, book stores, etc.

    • Chloé 🥕@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      yea, that’s pretty much it. third spaces include stuff like bars, public libraries, parks, public squares… basically, places where you can socialize outside of work.

      they still exist, obviously, but many of them have disappeared over the years, especially the ones that don’t expect you to pay. it’s even worse in suburbs, especially car-dependent suburbs, because those are zoned as housing only (so no libraries, bars, sometimes not even a park), and if you’re a kid you can’t drive to a city, so outside of school (and maybe extracurricular activities, if your parents can afford those), you’re stuck at home where the only place you can socialize is the internet.