Nah, look, you gotta understand, we have a one-sided story here with no chance for the man to defend his actions, and we’re taking her word at face value. Nothing else needed to tell us all about what a wise woman she is for dodging this bullet and what a moron he is. (This whole thread is reminding why I left lemmy. Insular, snotty, know-it-all, snobby, tribal, autistic… “You forgot ugly, lazy and disrespectful.” BAM! Good luck brucethemoose, I’m out again.)
Im just saying this person rejected a date over one mention of ChatGPT, with no apparent explanation to the other party, but I’m sure they wouldn’t like it if someone took one glance at their social media history and ghosted them over it, without any chance for a response.
Of course no one has obligation to respond.
But it doesn’t mean I have to like this, either. It rubs me the wrong way.
It reminds me of abusive people I’ve known, men and women, who don’t bother to communicate and just ghost the other party when they hear something they don’t like.
Nah, look, you gotta understand, we have a one-sided story here with no chance for the man to defend his actions, and we’re taking her word at face value. Nothing else needed to tell us all about what a wise woman she is for dodging this bullet and what a moron he is. (This whole thread is reminding why I left lemmy. Insular, snotty, know-it-all, snobby, tribal, autistic… “You forgot ugly, lazy and disrespectful.” BAM! Good luck brucethemoose, I’m out again.)
…That is not what I meant at all.
I did not mean to bring any sexism into this.
Im just saying this person rejected a date over one mention of ChatGPT, with no apparent explanation to the other party, but I’m sure they wouldn’t like it if someone took one glance at their social media history and ghosted them over it, without any chance for a response.
Of course no one has obligation to respond.
But it doesn’t mean I have to like this, either. It rubs me the wrong way.
It reminds me of abusive people I’ve known, men and women, who don’t bother to communicate and just ghost the other party when they hear something they don’t like.