In the fediverse since 2017. I mostly talk sports. If something on the internet doesn’t spark joy, mute it.

Do not yell at me simply because I am in front of you and the people responsible for the problems are not. It is extremely unpleasant.

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  • It’s definitely the case the fediverse requires a lot of specific, technical knowledge to really grasp, and that the onboarding story for new users is pretty confusing, especially since the most significant decision you make (what instance to host your account on) is the first decision you make, before you even see any content. It’s a problem I’ve been thinking about for many years, and still haven’t found a good solution for. Other some bland reassurances that “you’ll get the hang of it eventually,” all I can say is that every time I talk about instances, it feels like the scene from Mean Girls where Lindsay Lohan’s new friends explain the various high school cliques.






  • I wish people would get back to lying when I ask them how they’re doing. The new "how’re you?/“oh bad”/“oh what’s wrong?”/“oh you know, just kinda everything” interchange annoys me because it’s considered rude to then actually vent your spleen about the everything that is wrong. Either lie to me and say you’re fine, or say you’re bad and bring up a topic you want to discuss, but don’t say you’re bad and then expect me to ask no follow-up questions.



  • I’m not really sure about the whole thing, honestly. The comment you moderated is still out there, reachable by other fedi software like mastodon, so you’ve only really cleaned things up for a small subset of fedi users.

    One could imagine a Reddit-like client for fedi built over the hashtag system instead, where you follow hashtags and then browse them as a feed like you do with communities currently. This would mean moderation duties are all at the instance level, like they are for other fedi software, and they are limited to the ones supported by ActivityPub, instead of allowing a moderator to control a community actor, and I’m not sure it would be worse? Individual users would have to use the block and mute functions more liberally, and you’d need something like the tags.pub relay for discoverability, but it would resolve the problem of duplicate communities on different instances, and community creation is as easy as writing a hashtag.

    So many communities end up unmoderated, and the admins are already on the hook for everything that originates from their instance anyway, that I wonder if the tradeoffs for community moderation is worth it.

    But most of all I appreciate that all of this is hypothetical for me because the trolls by and large leave my communities alone and I don’t really have to take mod actions, which is awesome.








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    Claybrained Golems have nothing to do with whatever these llm techbro scammers are slopping. Golems, especially those made out of clay, are part of a long history of Judaism dating back to the Talmud, where Adam was described as having initially been a claybrained golem. Golems have protected Jews for generations and are a noble magical tradition, so don’t equate it with the shambling undead being marketed by Altman et al.