He wears his pants better than other people wear suits.

Take a look at how many woman are murdered by there partners. Take a look at how many woman experience sexual harassment or worse often at a very young age.

I think it’s pretty reasonable for a woman to put a man „on probation“ until he „probates“ himself.

None of this is your fault. But it’s also not the fault of the woman your dating.

And to be honest: everyone should take a very good look at a potential partner and be sure who this person is, that you try to spend (at least a significant part of) your life with.