• Baron Von J@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    and my dad replies, “Great.” That looks passive aggressive

    What about it makes it look passive aggressive? How would excluding punctuation make it not look passive aggressive?

    • Pommes_für_dein_Balg@feddit.org
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      9 months ago

      In my mind, the full stop “sounds” like dropping the voice at the end, like you do at the end of a sentence.
      And in speech, dropping the voice at the end of “Great” would sound sarcastic.

      Whereas an exclamation mark “sounds” high-pitched and excited.

      And no punctuation is so normal in text that my mind “adds” the expected sign at the end, which after “Great” would be an exclamation mark.

      It’s really hard to explain, I hope I’m making sense.

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      9 months ago

      It’s the explicit inclusion of period where ‘normally’ there wouldn’t be one. In texting or DMs it would normally be assumed that one-liners wouldn’t contain punctuation except to enhance effect, so the inclusion of the full stop is being read as a 😐 or exaggerated neutrality

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        9 months ago

        It’s the explicit inclusion of period where ‘normally’ there wouldn’t be one.

        But given the larger history of textual communication, full punctuation is normal. Texting isn’t charged per character so it’s not like there’s a benefit to leaving it out.

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          9 months ago

          Texting used to be done with a number pad, so going as far as adding a period used to be a statement. Obviously we all have keyboards now, but I’m sure some of that still translates over to today.

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          9 months ago

          Texting isn’t charged per character anymore, and only in most places most of the time. And those habits may still persist in other places. My manner of ‘speech’ is very different in front of a keyboard vs on a phone, for instance.

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          9 months ago

          Leaving out unnecessary characters makes you type faster, that’s also why people write u instead of you sometimes

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            9 months ago

            If poetry text
            Is how you commune with friends
            Passive aggressive.

            edit: fixed the formatting, and my keyboard unironically took my double-tap on space to add periods for me! 😅

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              9 months ago

              and my keyboard unironically took my double-tap on space to add periods for me!

              Markdown also permits a trailing backslash to be a linebreak, as an alternative to the two trailing spaces.

              foo\
              bar
              

              yields

              foo
              bar