• SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social
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    2 days ago

    So as long as I’m a good boy, I’m okay to be there?

    I’m not going there on purpose, but I managed to stumble into bars a couple of times without noticing it at first. I finished my drink and went on as I didn’t want to offend anyone as the foreign object invading.

    • givesomefucks@lemmy.world
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      2 days ago

      Nobody cares.

      When I was younger gay bars were always the pre-drink bars.

      It’s not like they’re all you can eat buffets where everyone is down, it’s just a place where gay people feel comfortable approaching people they’re attracted to.

      So by being there, the only thing you’re agreeing to, is not to freak out if a guy hits on you. It’s a very low bar to clear.