This question is inspired by my father. He is a retired Westerner living in Southeast Asia who is dating two sisters; they are obviously with him for the money, and he outright admits it. Personally, I could never find fulfillment in that kind of arrangement, but I’m curious about how others feel.
For me its more like meeting someone who likes almost all the exact same music/movies/games I do, with few exceptions, and who gets all my meme jokes and likes to do the same fun activities too. And their family isnt full of pshychopaths .
It’d be likely impossible for me to find another person like that.