Apart of that sending dick picks is dumb, her post sounds like classism at a full display. No matter that the capital is in education and not directly in money (but probably it is, too). I found this message pretty sad and upsetting. It’s like a millionaire bragging in front of a homeless.
Nothing she wrote seems like classism to me.
The way you put it, a lawyer should avoid mentioning he’s a lawyer as that would display he was educated and thus insulting people who couldn’t.
She’s probably complaining with her friends and reflecting about what happens.
In her work life she is a respected person who does important things which are recognised by her peers.
In her datings she has to go over people who can not come up with a better idea than to send a dick pic. This is a terrible thing, but some people may get desperate and accept some of these inepts. She’s reminding herself that she’s doesn’t really need to have these kinds of interactions.
Is there a classist message in there? I guess the main message is: I’m a smart person, I don’t need to put up with this.
She does not insult those people as Poor’s or people who did not study. As far are we know people sending those pictures may be millionaires (and I wouldn’t be surprised).
Academia is rife with bigots. This is an example of Horseshoe Theory in real life. They’re pigeonholed into their narrow track in life that they haven’t spared much thought for other topics. Not all that different from someone who is uneducated and ignorant.
They over-estimate their proficiency in other areas by assuming because they’ve studied hard at one thing, they must be good at anything. At best they know of the concepts of the -isms and repeat the right words when prompted to do so. But catch them in a moment such as this and all is revealed.
The internet is historically like this on account of it leaning towards the academically privileged classes of the world. People conflate socially maligned behaviors with education and professional status.
All you’ve done is reinforce that point. Because she is a scientist or because another person is a lawyer they are less deserving of this behavior??? As if a less privileged woman would be. You conveniently weaved your narrative around this. Education and class are inextricably linked.
I think people are taking issue with the way she uses some of the vocabulary to sound better than the dick shower. Now, she probably is better than the dick pic dude, but she is bragging a little by using some niche terminology.
I have no doubt it is jarring to be a tissue bioengineer and not receive better courtship than a picture of an erect schlong. Where I think she may have offended is when she said the person couldn’t even pronounce saponification.
In your example, I think a lawyer might be fine in and of itself, but less so if they said “you dummy, you don’t even know what caveat emptor means”
Regardless, I’m only trying to see the opposing argument. I still would say that most of the fault is on dick pic, but the poster might have been a bit of a terminology-dropper to gain some clout.
The whole post is about how she is educated and how imbelicle he is (even if he might act like one). I am not sure what country this is, but almost certainly her education entails that she is some upper, wealthy class. Does he looks like some posh class? If you don’t see it, maybe it’s time to go to your ophthalmologist.
Why do you assume that I am from US or I care about it? Is my English so good? I am from Europe. Yeah, higher education is free but living in a large city is not. In practice, only rich parents’ kids can afford to focus on a higher education.
That’s BS, at least here in Germany we have a system called “Bafög” where kids whose parents don’t earn enough to support them through University get a pretty decent monthly stipend. So anyone who wants to get higher education has the opportunity to do so.
do you have a slightest idea that not everyone is from germany and have a “Bafög”??? that there are countries where the education is ‘free’ only theoretically?
but maybe “that’s BS”, maybe i am wrong and the rest of the world is exactly like germany
wow such an ignorance and belief that “you can do what you dream of” is beyond my fucking comprehension
People love a moral reason to be racist, sexist or classist. Because what are you going to do? Most people are too fucking scared to call bullshit out when someone can just point at something slightly worse and claim your just giving a pass to that other thing.
Naw fuck the dude sending dick pics. And fuck this cunt for being a uppied shit stain.
Both people are terrible.
Fuck most people including me. People fucking suck.
Apart of that sending dick picks is dumb, her post sounds like classism at a full display. No matter that the capital is in education and not directly in money (but probably it is, too). I found this message pretty sad and upsetting. It’s like a millionaire bragging in front of a homeless.
Jesse, what the fuck are you talking about?
Educated, rich men still send unwanted dick pics
Nothing she wrote seems like classism to me. The way you put it, a lawyer should avoid mentioning he’s a lawyer as that would display he was educated and thus insulting people who couldn’t.
She’s probably complaining with her friends and reflecting about what happens. In her work life she is a respected person who does important things which are recognised by her peers.
In her datings she has to go over people who can not come up with a better idea than to send a dick pic. This is a terrible thing, but some people may get desperate and accept some of these inepts. She’s reminding herself that she’s doesn’t really need to have these kinds of interactions.
Is there a classist message in there? I guess the main message is: I’m a smart person, I don’t need to put up with this. She does not insult those people as Poor’s or people who did not study. As far are we know people sending those pictures may be millionaires (and I wouldn’t be surprised).
Academia is rife with bigots. This is an example of Horseshoe Theory in real life. They’re pigeonholed into their narrow track in life that they haven’t spared much thought for other topics. Not all that different from someone who is uneducated and ignorant.
They over-estimate their proficiency in other areas by assuming because they’ve studied hard at one thing, they must be good at anything. At best they know of the concepts of the -isms and repeat the right words when prompted to do so. But catch them in a moment such as this and all is revealed.
The internet is historically like this on account of it leaning towards the academically privileged classes of the world. People conflate socially maligned behaviors with education and professional status.
All you’ve done is reinforce that point. Because she is a scientist or because another person is a lawyer they are less deserving of this behavior??? As if a less privileged woman would be. You conveniently weaved your narrative around this. Education and class are inextricably linked.
I think people are taking issue with the way she uses some of the vocabulary to sound better than the dick shower. Now, she probably is better than the dick pic dude, but she is bragging a little by using some niche terminology.
I have no doubt it is jarring to be a tissue bioengineer and not receive better courtship than a picture of an erect schlong. Where I think she may have offended is when she said the person couldn’t even pronounce saponification.
In your example, I think a lawyer might be fine in and of itself, but less so if they said “you dummy, you don’t even know what caveat emptor means”
Regardless, I’m only trying to see the opposing argument. I still would say that most of the fault is on dick pic, but the poster might have been a bit of a terminology-dropper to gain some clout.
she’s spend the whole fucking post about bragging how educated she is and what fancy words and concept she knows
It’s not classism to complain about stupid people doing stupid things. She’s not complaining about low class people
The whole post is about how she is educated and how imbelicle he is (even if he might act like one). I am not sure what country this is, but almost certainly her education entails that she is some upper, wealthy class. Does he looks like some posh class? If you don’t see it, maybe it’s time to go to your ophthalmologist.
Nah
She just doesn’t want to see your D
Drop it
Also you can get higher education for free in Europe (except the UK). Stop thinking that the US is the centre of the world.
Why do you assume that I am from US or I care about it? Is my English so good? I am from Europe. Yeah, higher education is free but living in a large city is not. In practice, only rich parents’ kids can afford to focus on a higher education.
That’s BS, at least here in Germany we have a system called “Bafög” where kids whose parents don’t earn enough to support them through University get a pretty decent monthly stipend. So anyone who wants to get higher education has the opportunity to do so.
do you have a slightest idea that not everyone is from germany and have a “Bafög”??? that there are countries where the education is ‘free’ only theoretically?
but maybe “that’s BS”, maybe i am wrong and the rest of the world is exactly like germany
wow such an ignorance and belief that “you can do what you dream of” is beyond my fucking comprehension
“he” in this case could just as well be a trust-fund college bro … no mention of class at all …
jumping to the conclusion that awful behavior correlates with lower socioeconomic class … that’s kinda … classist?
rich men do not need to send dick picks on tinder
they use their money to get sex
People love a moral reason to be racist, sexist or classist. Because what are you going to do? Most people are too fucking scared to call bullshit out when someone can just point at something slightly worse and claim your just giving a pass to that other thing.
Naw fuck the dude sending dick pics. And fuck this cunt for being a uppied shit stain.
Both people are terrible.
Fuck most people including me. People fucking suck.
Nah, most people are okay most of the time.
But we do all suck sometimes.
Pobody is nerfect.
He truly is:
This is perfectly right.