• Janx@piefed.social
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    17 hours ago

    Okay… maybe this is a dumb question. But if I get her digits and am clearly pursuing her… how could she think I’m gay!?

    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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      16 hours ago

      because she isn’t logical or thoughtful person. She is emotional and biased and has lots of irrational insane beliefs.

      I dated a woman once who told me eating cereal was unmanly and pathetic. Like granola. I was suppose to eat MEAT and BREAD, and be a MAN. but eating a bowl of fruits, nuts, and grains was WEAK.

      I just laughed and tried to dismiss it, but she was dead serious and basically said if I want to keep seeing her I’m not allowed to eat granola as a cereal in a bowl w/milk… only in bar form as a hiking snack or something. It was so arbitrary and bizarre.

    • zaphod@sopuli.xyz
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      17 hours ago

      Maybe she thought you’re bi, apparently that’s a big turn off for some women.