• MastKalandar@feddit.online
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      2 days ago

      That’s a significant achievement, being comfortable with who you are. But you were in the dark for several decades ??

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        2 days ago

        Sure, dismissal and outright denial can put you in dark places, alcoholism for a lot of years, other drugs, just doing nothing. In the dark metaphorically speaking.

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            1 day ago

            I have no idea how you gleaned that from what I said. I was talking about my personal experiences and not talking about anything else.

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                9 hours ago

                Oh sorry, no, I don’t think it’s necessary to do anything in particular, just being a decent person is enough. I always felt like I needed to do something or something was undone when I was confused about my identity, so I thought maybe it could be the same for others.