https://www.facebook.com/share/v/199VfjPJAa/ This woman talks about guilt specifically, but the message parallels with “fear of eternal hellfire or damnation”. You’ve been programmed, from infant hood, that hell exists and you’ll go there for not being a “good enough” Muslim, and it’s not going to be fixed instantly, it’ll take years to undo the programming you went through. Why do you think the religious fear college and even grade schools so much? Because the logic and knowledge that are passed along, as well as being exposed to a wide variety of people and cultures, prevents the religious programming they rely on. When the religious say that liberals are “indoctrinating” the children, it’s not that they are being indoctrinated, it’s that they Aren’t being indoctrinated by the religion, and are being exposed to things that make them question, and often turn away from, the indoctrination they received by the religious. The thing to remember about hell fire is that it doesn’t exist and any “god” who decided to torment you for eternity for not “loving it” the right way is a “god” that would find any reason to justify tormenting you for eternity no matter how you worshippedit, it’s an evil “god” to begin with.
Planned obsolescence. Use Lemmy as though one day you aren’t going to anymore and have a replacement lined up. Reddit was the sole source for so long that people got used to it and put up with their enshittification because it was a sole source product. Then Lemmy was made to replace it for people who didn’t want to put up with enshittification, but it will happen here too eventually. So start planning your next move or build it’s replacement now and keep it on standby for when the replacement needs to happen.