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Cake day: July 10th, 2023

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  • It’s not an easy thing to learn how to deal with, but it’s always good to try to deescalate situations when possible.

    There are different ways to handle it, humor is one method. So, if someone accuses you of being a bot, you can reply with something like, “Hello, fellow human, I am most certainly a human replying in the most humane way possible”.

    Additionally, attack the argument, not the person. If someone claims something that you didn’t say, focus on that. Try to leave out any insults since that will just escelate the situation.

    If all else fails, just block and report. Some instances here are known for dogpiling when someone’s opinions are seen as a threat to their own beliefs.








  • Having been to France/Paris a few times, the first few times weren’t too great. However, I went again later on with my wife who was able to explain the proper etiquette and unspoken social rules and the experience was completely different to the point where I loved it.

    Many tourists won’t understand those rules, so they may come off as rude. But even a little effort will go a long way. Just a few things I can think of at the moment:

    • Always say “Bonjour” when entering any shop, even if no one is visible at first.
    • When talking to anyone, don’t start talking in English, first try to get by with whatever French you know (even if it’s terrible).
    • For escalators, never block the left side. The right side is for standing, the left side is for those who might be in a hurry and will be walking through.
    • On public transit, don’t be loud/bothersome. No talking on the phone. Don’t put your phone on speaker when listening to videos/media. If you have to talk, whisper.