Yes. Literally when I was in college. I even asked for consent super awkwardly, because that’s what everyone said you’re supposed to do. and even when someone said yes I still had to deal with accusations from her friends later because they decided after the fact that she didn’t really mean yes and that I was supposed to somehow read her mind.
How many times do I need to ask “Are you sure?” Before a yes counts as consent?
So what you’re saying is that habitually withdrawing consent after the deed is done and using that to shame a person is a form of manipulation and emotional abuse?
Well, have you ever encountered one in real life? If not, best not to worry.
Yes. Literally when I was in college. I even asked for consent super awkwardly, because that’s what everyone said you’re supposed to do. and even when someone said yes I still had to deal with accusations from her friends later because they decided after the fact that she didn’t really mean yes and that I was supposed to somehow read her mind.
How many times do I need to ask “Are you sure?” Before a yes counts as consent?
If it’s many times, it’s not actually about consent.
So what you’re saying is that habitually withdrawing consent after the deed is done and using that to shame a person is a form of manipulation and emotional abuse?