I’m a healthy outdoorsy athletic woman, never touched drugs or alcohol or junk food, a lifestyle which is intentional & ESSENTIAL criteria I work hard for.
So WHY the only men who approach me with amorous intentions are unhealthy, cigarette, alcohol, junk food men??
Update: Thank you for your thoughtful responses & the humorous ones too. I upvoted my favorites & laughed at the funnies and you’ve given me plenty to think about & work on.


Haha, I came here to say the same thing. Basically the average person (at least in the US) will probably be overweight (4 in 10 adult men are obese in the US - https://www.cdc.gov/obesity/data-and-statistics/adult-obesity-prevalence-maps.html)
Add in any other negative factor (smoking, drinking, misogynistic) and you’re probably covering 60-70% of the men in the US!
I’ve made myself sad with data :(