Ok but let us take a step back, women are the experts on getting pregnant and have been for all of human history, is it not natural than for a woman to intuitively understand there is an inherent mystery to the boundary between something being there and something not? Is it not the most natural thing in the world for a woman to see life as a rising and falling wave of probability not a series of particles separated by voids?

I know nothing about what it is like to become pregnant but I am quite sure that it is not a process that can be grappled with sufficiently if you refuse to let go of seeing the universe through the lens of balls banging around alone in a vast darkness. Pregnancy is wave that ends in a hopefully glorious crash into new life, what else could it be? Certainly not a series of particles experiencing events, I don’t need a woman to explain that to me about pregnancy that is for sure.